Tuesday, April 20, 2010

"Enjoy them!"


Today someone unknowingly gave me a word of advice about my kids..."enjoy them." Those words resounded in my heart for minutes after they were uttered nonchalantly. I began to think of each of my daughters and I felt blessed. Motherhood has been the most challenging chapter of my life but hands down the most rewarding. Even when I doubt myself or cry tears of complete frustration, the truth is that I am blessed and with four daughters I have MUCH to enjoy! I cannot imagine my life without my any one of my children. For all the mom's who can often daily deal with guilt or (often) self-imposed pressure, don't waste your time! There is no such thing as a part-time mom! Enjoy your children because honestly, they enjoy YOU! Only you can love them and make them giggle in that special way. Whether I just walked up to the school grounds to pick up my school-aged daughters or tip-toe up to my baby's crib, the response is always the same- a heart-felt, love-filled, warm and fuzzy filled smile. Mom (or dad) don't be so hard on yourself. You're amazing! You have your children to prove it! Enjoy them!

2 comments:

  1. I am not a mommy yet but one day I hope to be one. Sometimes I worry and wonder if I will be a good mom, able to balance everything. My prayer constantly to God is to give me the ability to really live and enjoy the life that he gave me and not just pass by overlooking so many things I often do. Thanks for your advise to the mommies yet to be.

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  2. AJ you will be a great mommy! How do I know? ...because you are an amazing daughter to us and an amazing friend to many!

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